As someone who travels frequently, I’ve come to accept a frustrating reality — standard airplane seats just aren’t built for people my size. To avoid making anyone uncomfortable (including myself), I’ve developed a solution: I book two seats side by side — a window seat and the one next to it — every time I fly.
On one particular trip, I had just settled in and buckled up when a woman with a young child approached. Without a word, she placed her child in the empty seat beside me — the one I had paid for.
I politely let her know that both seats were mine and that I had booked the second one for a reason. But instead of understanding, she exploded.
— “Are you really not going to give up a seat for a kid?!”
Suddenly, a few nearby passengers jumped in with disapproving looks and uninvited comments like:
— “Come on, it’s just a child.”
I could feel the judgment from all sides, but I stayed calm. I knew I had every right to the space I paid for.
So I reached up and pressed the call button.
When the flight attendant arrived, I explained the situation, showed both of my boarding passes, and said:
“If this isn’t resolved, I’d like the captain involved. This passenger is trying to claim a seat I paid for, which violates airline policy.”
That got their attention. The crew had a brief discussion and, within minutes, the woman and her child were removed from the flight. Turns out, this wasn’t her first attempt at pulling something like this — she’d just gotten away with it in the past.
Once they were gone, the tension lifted. A few passengers even offered quiet apologies. Most avoided eye contact.
For the record: I buy two seats not just for my comfort — but out of respect for those around me. That space isn’t a luxury. It’s something I paid for, and I’m not obligated to give it up to anyone.
